askyourdreamsforideas: How to stay happy and positive in a grim,unhappy world

“Now; I express to you, you create ALL of your reality. You create every moment of your reality – every breath, every thought, every emotion, every feeling, every action, every encounter. Every interaction of your reality – every circumstance and every ‘thing’ within your reality – is created by yourself.

“No other individual, no circumstance, no essence, no element of consciousness may be creating any aspect of your reality for you. This is an intrusive action, and consciousness and essences are not intrusive. This is an intrinsic quality of consciousness, to not be intrusive. Therefore, NO element of your reality may be created by any other expression outside of yourself.
“Now; you create the illusion within your beliefs that outside influences create aspects of your reality, but in actuality, you ALWAYS hold choices.”

From the Elias Forum

Stop buying into the belief that you are the victim of outside influences.If you find yourself experiencing a grim reality that is a shared reality for the rest of the world as well,then you have allowed yourself to buy into that mass belief system and you have been instantly transported into the grim realm of all the individuals that believe and operate within that reality.

In other words,if you believe that we are going through tough times,you harmonise first your thoughts and emotions and then your actions with the reality of ''tough times''.You form connections with people,things,actions and situations that help you become part of that grim reality.You keep sinking deeper and deeper into it,until your focus is so intently transfixed on this reality that it will take a miracle for you to defocus and escape.

Please stop focusing on this kind of grim reality.It is an epidemic,a highly catching virus,perpetuated by the media and all those affected by it.Stay strong and healthy,stay unaffected so that you can help others back to health and sanity.

How can you stay healthy and unaffected?

Simple really.It's a two-part process.

First,do not try to avoid thinking about this grim reality we are talking about.Everything you resist,persists and becomes stronger,because your subconscious keep focusing on it,even if your conscious self doesn't,in an attempt to solve this conflict for you.Controlling your subconscious is extremely difficult,if not impossible.Don't attempt it,unless you are a master of the kind.Instead,each time you find yourself worrying about your grim reality,pose for a second,acknowledge your fears and then play with them!If we face our fears and worries head on,fully experiencing them as a probability without dreading them,then they lose their power over us.It's facing our deamons.If we avoid them,they keep chasing us.We may choose to ignore them,but they are still there,keeping us in a state of chronic stress.

For example,I am worried about not being able to pay my morgage,taxes etc.I pause,face my fears and then play with them.Here's how;what's gonna happen if I won't be able to pay my morgage?Worst case scenario,I'll end up losing my home.So what?Then I'll probably rent a new place.Which means I may be able to look for a better place,with a garden,which the kids and the dogs are gonna love!That's cool!We'd love that!Or we may live in a caravan,or a train carriage or any combination of cool things.Now that would be an adventure and fun!And you can do that with everything you are scared of.

So the first part is actually facing your fears head on and then contemplating their becoming a reality without dreading them.Think of life in general as fun.No matter what you choose to experience in the future,it's gonna be alright and it's gonna be fun.If you operate through this mindset,your fears will melt away before your very eyes.Do not omit this first crucial part of disengaging from the mass reality.If you omit it,the second part won't work at all,or will work only partially.

Alright,on to the next part.The second part of disengaging from mass reality is actually focusing on fun and pleasure.Do what feels like fun.Forget how mass hysteria-the deadly virus we are talking about-urges you to focus on the 'grim reality' of the world.They keep brainwashing you into believing that if you focus on it,you might be able to do something about it.THAT'S NOT TRUE!!!!We cannot solve anything from a place of fear,it is simply impossible,or a supernatural feat at best,an uphill struggle.It's a guaranteed way to get you infected and deeply sunk into the reality of all those affected by the terror and unhappiness epidemic.

Instead,stay strong and healthy by focusing on fun,fun,fun.Fun does not necessarily mean spending money or looking for extraordinary experiences.Fun and enjoyment is primarily a shift of your focus from the serious and boring to the pleasant and enjoyable.Surely,you can do that!All it takes is a decision at each and every given moment.Choose it.And by the way,I definitely don't mean neglecting our obligations or stop working,doing chores etc because it's not fun.Fun is a state of mind first and foremost and can be incorporated in practically all situations.Be creative,be inventive in finding more ways to have fun.It is crucial for your staying strong in your reality and being unaffected by the grim reality of mass hysteria.

Create your own reality.A happy,radiant reality of your own making.Then invite more and more people to share it and create a similar one for themselves.It's the only way to help our world become a happy place again.You are a warrior,a champion of Happiness.Don't waste another second.Create our happiness reality now!