My best friend of 26 years- we get to see each other every year or so since we live in different towns- is sitting across the table from me, over a cup of coffee. We are discussing men and women and communication problems and how one pasrtner's insensitive remarks make the other one withdraw and grow distant and indifferent and resentful and unapproachable.
''You both need to remain vulnerable and keep communication channels open, or else small things put up big walls'', I tell him
''Yeah, I guess we need to sit down and talk things over'', he says.
''You do that'', I agree.''But before the big talk, I'll give you my recipe on How To Turn On A Woman's Vulnerable and Sweet Side.
''Really? And what's that?!'' he asks, intrigued.
Are you too, ready for it?
Eirini's Powrful Recipe on How To Turn On A Woman's Vulnerable and Sweet Side After a Fight??
Push her hard against a wall or a bed/couch/counter and tell her how you're turned on by her smell/tits/ass/whatever and how you're gonna fuck the living shit outta her, first passionately and furiously, then tenderly and slowly and how she's gonna love it.
Then do it.
Fuck the living shit out of her.
Melt her resentment and walls with kisses. Preferably the hickie kind kisses.
No, it's not politically incorrect . Yes, she'll love it. She''ll treasure it .Might even talk about it with her best friend in ecstatic whispers.
Then have The Talk, if you feel like it ( You won't, but she will, so oblige , but only the day after, or else you'll spoil the afterglow)
A woman is her most receptive when she feels loved and desired.
Dont tell her, show her.
Then watch what happens
Note: the above recipe does not apply to:
a/ total strangers meeting for the first time
( this is called rape, dude and it'll end you up in court)
b/ men who've been total assholes to their women consistently and for a long time
( no banging can makes up for past intentional cruelty , in fact it might even make things worse)