A man in a committed relationship probably desires a woman's respect and to be honored by her even more than he wants to have sex with her.
Yeah, really. That much!
Given a choice between feeling unloved or feeling disrespected, three fourths of men will choose to feel unloved, according to one survey. Three out of four men would rather feel unloved rather than disrespected or inadequate. If he feels
disrespected, he feels unloved.
The truth is any man needs his woman's love for him expressed as respect and admiration in the same way that his woman need his love expressed through emotional intimacy and feeling cared for.
Dishonoring a man is a blow to his heart. It says to him, “I don’t love you.”
definition for respect:'' holding in honor or esteem, to pay proper attention, and to show consideration for.''
“But you don’t know my man!” you say. “He can be such a pig-headed idiot sometimes.”
No, I don’t know your man or husband or boyfriend or the details of his pig-headedness ,but I still insist that he deserves and needs your respect.
Please pay attention to my choice of words. Respect does not mean submission.
A master-slave relationship, where one person has all the power.
Unconditional respect does not imply slavery, fake flattery, submission or unconditional agreement or endorsement, but it does imply that in all things and at all times you are to maintain an atmosphere of HONOR in your relationship
It means not putting him down when you disagree as so many women often do.. It means not talking badly about him to your friends or family. It means not browbeating him when asking him to do something. It means not assuming he will do the wrong thing.
A woman's power is in her praise of her man, not in negativity, criticism and complaining.
Because this works both ways.
As soon as a man feels respected, he starts paying back by giving a woman adoration, love, care and better sex. (Unless he is a jerk,impervious to respect or love or any of the like, of course. There are many of those, among women too. My suggestion to anyone : stay away from jerks, men and women alike)
So he gets more respect, she gets more love and care. And sex.
So she flourishes. And it shows.
It's a win-win situation
You might wonna try it some time